Men helping men. I was at an Ikea this last weekend, wandering around the show room, when I absentmindedly ran into a young guy doing the same thing. I apologized to him, explaining that I'd I'd been mesmerized by the massive quantity of things and had somehow wandered away from my wife. With my mind preoccupied, I guess I hadn't really been looking where I was going. He laughed, and explained that he'd lost his wife too. I offered to help him look for his wife if he'd help me look for mine. The…